Ever wonder how certain gentlemen look impeccable without appearing overdressed? It’s ten simple principles that transform clothing into confidence. Welcome to the 10 Commandments of Gentleman’s Style.
- 1. Fit Comes First
- 2. Purchase for Longevity You Can Afford
- 3. Buy for Quality, Not Brands
- 4. Understand Legacy & History
- 5. …But Rules Aren’t Everything
- 6. Dress for Yourself, Not Society
- 7. Being a Gentleman Isn’t Just Clothes
- 8. Care for Your Clothing
- 9. Have Fun
- 10. Be True to Yourself
- Conclusion
- FAQ
- Next Steps in Gentlemanly Living
1. Fit Comes First
Even inexpensive garments look elevated when they fit the body correctly. Study hallmarks of proper fit, budget for a good tailor, and replace items that will never sit right. Nothing upgrades your appearance faster.
Proof in the Fit: Outfit Breakdown
Let’s use today’s outfit as an example on how fit impacts how you look.
I’m wearing a blue houndstooth jacket with a blue-and-white striped shirt, navy pants, Fort Belvedere shadow-striped socks, navy boots, and a fun, contrasting pocket square with a lot of different accents of burgundy, brown, and different blues. And to accent everything, I’m also wearing a fun signature ring as well. For fragrance, we have on Giardino Di Boboli from Roberto Ugolini.
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2. Purchase for Longevity You Can Afford
Treat clothing like investments. Quality costs more up front but pays dividends in durability and elegance. Hunt bargains via thrifting and vintage shops while keeping an eye on craftsmanship relative to the price tag.
3. Buy for Quality, Not Brands
A famous label is not a guarantee of exceptional construction or materials. Evaluate stitching, fabrics, and finishing before you pay for marketing hype. Brand loyalty is fine—once the brand earns it.
4. Understand Legacy & History
The conventions that govern every classic garment exist for a historical reason. Learning that back-story explains the rules and guidelines and guards you from repeating past style mistakes.
5. …But Rules Aren’t Everything
Once you grasp why rules exist, you can bend them intelligently. “No brown in town” made sense in Victorian London; today it’s optional. Creative risk is easier when you know the foundations.
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6. Dress for Yourself, Not Society
Modern culture often discourages dressing up. Own your choices and wear tailoring for your own enjoyment, not external validation. Confidence outshines conformity.
You are free to dress up as you please to express yourself
There is plenty of room for personal expression within classic style.
7. Being a Gentleman Isn’t Just Clothes
Respect context and other people. Follow event dress codes, practice honesty and courtesy, and help newcomers understand classic style. Elegance without kindness is hollow.
8. Care for Your Clothing
Polish shoes, roll ties, and steam jackets. Basic maintenance extends lifespan and keeps investments paying off.
Style starts in the closet, not the store.
Cream, polish, reflect—repeat.
Roll ties to keep creases away.
A crisp press refreshes any shirt.
9. Have Fun
Don’t let perfectionism kill the joy. Classic style is a hobby; if obsessing over sleeve pitch stops being fun, step back, reset, and remember why you started.
10. Be True to Yourself
Classic menswear spans vintage dandies to contemporary minimalists. Adapt these principles to your body, culture, and personality—make sure you wear the clothes, not vice-versa.
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Conclusion
The principles we’ve outlined today should not be thought of as restrictions; they’re a roadmap that leads to looking refined while still feeling authentically you. Master the fundamentals, tweak them to suit your life, and—above all—enjoy the journey.
Which commandment resonates most with you? Tell us in the comments below!
FAQ
What’s the most important style commandment to live by?
Ironically, it’s the idea that your clothing itself isn’t the most valuable thing classic style has to offer, but the principles behind what “Gentlemanly Style” conveys.
What should someone interested in classic style do first?
The most important thing is making sure the clothing you do have fits you as well as it can. While investing in quality products is a cornerstone of classic style, well-fitting clothes of lesser quality will usually look better than luxury clothes that don’t fit properly.
What if I’m interested in classic style but can’t afford it?
While classic style can be a bit of an investment at times, it doesn’t necessarily have to be overly expensive. Utilizing tools and methods like thrifting, or searching for items on eBay, can help you build up a quality wardrobe for a fraction of the price.
I want to dress well but I’m scared of what others will think. What should I do?
Classic style isn’t about doing what other people expect of you, but doing what feels true to you. There’s no denying it takes some courage to dress well when those around you often don’t, but once you get used to it, you won’t be able to imagine dressing any other way.
How do I take care of the clothing I own?
Clothing maintenance practices, such as polishing your shoes and ironing your shirts, may take some getting used to, but they will pay dividends in the long run. Luckily, we have plenty of guides on how to do these practices on the channel!
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I have been saying and doing the same things for years that you listed in this article. Simple yet true for anyone who wants to learn how to be comfortable in their “own style”. The only external validation I get and need, in when I am finished dressing and see my reflection in the mirror to make sure everything is nice looking before heading out.
Agree completely that fit is number one.
Unfortunately, perfect fit is lacking in the photo accompaniment. The jacket is too tight and short, and far from “tapering perfectly,” the trousers are too long, and thus, fabric bunches up all the way to the knees. On a man with a more stout build, tapering trousers accentuate midsection girth, as does tight clothing.
What an incredibly well-crafted and insightful post! The 10 Commandments of Gentleman Style perfectly capture what true menswear is all about—confidence, care, and character. I especially appreciated the emphasis on fit and longevity. These aren’t just style tips; they’re life lessons that can help anyone carry themselves with elegance and authenticity.
Your detailed explanation of each principle—from understanding history to embracing individuality—makes this blog post a valuable style guide for both beginners and seasoned gentlemen alike. It goes beyond fashion and touches on personal development, which makes it stand out in a sea of surface-level style advice.
As someone who also believes that good style starts from an early age, I’d recommend exploring timeless fashion for kids too. Just like this post encourages sophistication in men’s style, you can find equally classy options in the boy dress category for younger fashion lovers. Because true style knows no age!
Looking forward to more posts like this—keep up the phenomenal work!
What a marvellous set of rules