We’ve written extensively about gift-giving on the Gentleman’s Gazette for this one reason: it can be tricky! It’s more of an art than a science. Furthermore, there are stakes involved: great gifts will reap appreciation, and bad gifts can create disappointment in your relationships. Today, we’ll share six great gifting suggestions for the gentlemen in your life!
Mastering the Art of Gift Giving
Gifts you give reflect the knowledge and love you have the person you’re giving them to, so it’s worth the time to invest to learn how to do it well. You may need to give gifts as part of your work or business, so the stakes are still there, but they’re no less important. A bad gift might cost you a client, but a good gift might open a new door.
For example, Raphael and Teresa once received an engraved Cutco knife from a company touting the power of business gifts–but said company failed miserably to accomplish their objective. This company didn’t know, or perhaps didn’t take the time to research, that Raphael and Teresa are avid home chefs and have very specific knife preferences. A knife that failed a basic sharpness test on arrival not only failed to impress them, but also reflected that the company did not truly know them and also was trying to buy their attention and not earn it.
The art of gift-giving is something we’ll all do for a lifetime, so, in our guide on How To Give Great Gifts, we laid out ten principles on the art of selecting what you will give. It’s worth reading closely to learn the techniques that you can employ to make sure that your choice is lined up perfectly for the recipient. Like any action, it makes sense to know the end goal with gift-giving: ensure that the gift is thoughtful, carefully considered, and chosen specifically for the recipient. Most individuals will pick up on whether or not a gift was personalized, and whether or not you put much thought into it. That doesn’t make it any easier to do!
So, are there truly timeless gifts that you’re able to fall back on? We think so! And even though the ten principles are key, there are gifts that never go out of style.
Characteristics of Timeless Gifts
1. It’s High-Quality
This means the product you’re purchasing has a higher degree of value, a longer potential lifespan, or excellence compared to similar products or services. These products are created using the best quality material available and durable construction methods for the best longevity. For example, you can choose wool or cashmere over polyester.
2. It’s Classic
Fads and trends can make for tricky gifts because they don’t last. They might be the hot gift item at the moment, but they will likely lose their value.
3. It’s Life-Enhancing
Will this gift help the recipient enjoy life more? Consider practical gifts carefully as they can send a different message than a gift that’s been designed.
6 Timeless Gifts for Gentlemen
1. Luxury Food Products
We’re starting with food because it’s got universal appeal. We all have to eat, and specialty food items can be a thoughtful gift for the people in your life. We think with food, it’s important that you select something that is special and not an everyday food item. A fruit basket might be classic, but to us, it’s neither interesting nor unique.
How to make a food gift special? Try looking for things that are rare, imported, or too expensive for everyday eating. Start by considering the tastes of your recipient and then try selecting something like a 30-year aged balsamic vinegar; the real stuff is actually really hard to find: caviar or wagyu beef, premium olive oil, or a real New York cheesecake.
You can also consider using websites like Goldbelly to send a whole range of nostalgia food items as gifts.
2. Fine Cookware
For the enthusiastic home chef, cookware (or a cooking accessory) is a great gift if you know their tastes. Some classic and enduring kitchen gifts include a cast-iron skillet, a carbon steel pan, other cast iron pans like a dutch oven or a brazier, a monogrammed apron, salt and pepper mills, or Japanese knives like Shun.
3. Premium Spirits
Premium spirits depend very much on the tastes of the recipient, but they can be an excellent gift for even the most comprehensive bar owner. Now to make this gift special, avoid basic, bar-staple spirits like Jack Daniels or Beefeater Gin, which are available at almost any store.
Instead, try visiting your local store–no, not Costco! Then ask them for their recommendations on what spirit would make a great gift. For example, gin, scotch, whiskey, or bourbon.
4. Personally Curated Gift Baskets
Giving a gift that is personally assembled for the recipient is touching purely for the effort it requires. Pre-assembled gift baskets should be avoided, and they are often filled with packaging more than a product. And, the contents are paltry relative to the overall look. For example, a pickle and jerky subscription may be creative, but you’ll also pay a steep premium, and it will still lack that personal touch.
Meanwhile, a gift basket hand-assembled by you can contain an assortment of things that your recipient might like: for example, a selection of gourmet cheeses from your local cheese store with olives, fig spread, cheese knives, a mini cutting board, fresh pears, charcuterie, and nuts. Or, try a selection of liqueurs and bitters for cocktail fanatics, a selection of exotic IPAs for the hops lover, or you can make kits for a specific cocktail.
5. Classic Accessories (That Aren’t Sized)
Buying clothing and accessories for a dapper gent can be a bit of a challenge, as they may have their own vision for their personal style. However, gifting accessories can considerably lighten the risk because there are a few key ones that are not sized and won’t limit their ability to wear them.
Scarves
Our top recommendations for timeless accessories are scarves. We recommend choosing premium materials like alpaca or cashmere for warmth and longevity. Try choosing muted or solid colors or classic patterns like a black watch tartan that will pair nicely with an overcoat in tan or navy; you want some contrast.
Cufflinks
Cufflinks are the ultimate gentleman’s accessory. A traditional pair can last a lifetime and can be worn for weddings, cocktail parties, black tie events, or even to the office. For a reserved gent, opt for a monkey’s fist in silver or gold.
Wallets
Wallets are one of the most overlooked gift options, but despite their everyday carry purpose, why not have a functional wallet that expresses some style and uniqueness?
Most men’s wallet choices are quite boring; black and brown? Come on, don’t be afraid of a little color! The wallet will most likely be in a coat pocket most of the time anyway. Our Fort Belvedere wallets are two-toned for a pop of color, so check out our interesting color combinations in the shop.
Classic Sunglasses
Sunglasses are probably the trickiest of this category, but a classic frame is always going to have a place in a gentleman’s wardrobe. We recommend you stick with the true classics for gifts such as aviators, wayfarers, and clubmasters from Ray-Ban, and Persols 649 and 714.
6. Personal Care Gifts
Personal care can be, well, very personal! This is the one gift area you should truly tread lightly, and should only attempt to purchase a gift in this area if you’re very close to the recipient. We love traditional bar soap, for instance, but that doesn’t mean that the recipient will interpret the gesture as a kind one. Instead, they may interpret it as a verdict on their hygiene.
However, if you know your recipient well enough to understand some of their preferences, there are some personal care items that make excellent gifts.
Fragrances
Given that there is so much variety in fragrances, a scent can be a great addition to any man’s collection. We’ve covered eight classic fragrances previously and then followed it up with ten more. More specifically, Creed is one of these classic fragrance brands that we happen to love.
Shaving Products
Other personal care options include:
- A premium shaving cream or soap; we like the Truefitt & Hill shaving cream bowl,
- A double-edged razor handle for the man who likes a great shave; our team favors the Slant and Futur handles from Merkur,
- And a shaving brush for the man who already enjoys a double-edged razor shave.
Need more ideas for this gift category? You might pick up something from our post on our favorite grooming products.
Conclusion
Thoughtful gift-giving is an art that a gentleman acknowledges as important, and timeless gifts are a good place to start. Not only will it make the recipient feel special, but it will also nurture your relationships.
A gift I often do, and that I absolutely love to receive, is a valuable edition of a book: the first edition of a book has a permanent aura that enriches its donor and receiver.
Also, a personalized set of tools for glasses, watches, small devices it’s something that everyone will appreciate.
A decent writing instrument, or a set, as a fountain pen or a titanium mechanical pencil, with a classy pure leather holder, accompanied with a leather notebook holder, with initial embossed on.
These are some ideas …
Splendid ideas in this article and by Mr Palandri; Iโd like to add especially on the latter writing theme: pens and mechanical pencils by Kaweco are a great and extraordinary gift with outstanding design and quality, very endurable and eye catching even after many years.
For the same reason notebooks diaries by Leuchtturm 1917 and Sigel Conceptum make a fine gift for a person preferring to โthink with the handโ as Leuchtturmโs slogan puts it. They come in a variety of sizes and colours and are sure to last to the last page and keep notes and thoughts safe for many years after that.
These are wonderful ideas, Raffaello. Thank you for sharing! :)
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Very timely article, one should however know the person’s likes and their fashion habits. I have a good friend I’ve known since kindergarten who I gift every year with a pair of cufflinks. He does the same with me. We try, good naturedly of course, to outdo each other in originality. We also do this because we are the only ones we know who wear French Cuff shirts regularly.
Youโd think so, especially if the gentlemen the gift is for is an intimate partner/spouse or a close friend. In saying that, though, Iโve met plenty of couples in my time who have no idea what to buy for their significant other. Or even close friends, especially if gift giving is seen as something of a chore like washing the dishes; or if they have poor memories and/or donโt pay attention to little details or hints about likes/dislikes.
Spot on, Eric! The exchange of gifts between you and your friend sounds exciting! :)
l once sent 12 page pictorial Calenders to business contacts featuring our products with seasonal fashions past & present. I carefully highlighted our Accounting Periods, Public Holidays & changing of season dates on it in different colours. The following year our Accounts Dept’ spent less time chasing payments. One recipient later mentioned he liked to see upcoming breaks – it was something to look forward to with time to plan too. He asked if he could go on next years’ list. He bought his appreciative wife treats when the Seasons changed. Win win for all concerned !
Sounds great! Definitely win-win all round :)
That is brilliant, Peter!
This one applies to gift giving in general but Iโd like to add #7 to the list of characteristics: the gift MUST be intended for the gentlemen itโs being given to. This is particularly important where the giver lives with the gentlemen as itโs easy to fall into the trap of buying something the giver likes.
Case in point: a female friend Iโve known for years lives with a relative (albeit a female relative but the same principle applies) whoโs got everything they need/want and doesnโt have any real hobbies or interests, which makes for a hard time working out what to give them for birthdays/Christmas. They also donโt wear much jewellery and have plenty of clothes and bags (seemingly default gifts for women.) While the relative uses body wash/shower gel so does the friend so she tries to stay away from that (and food) knowing sheโll end up using it herself. I suggested a food voucher for some great local takeaway places or for a restaurant voucher but the friend said no for the same reason as the food/shower gels: her relative would use it on her (to treat her to takeaway) and she wants to give her relative something thatโs intended for her and her only.
When I had a business and it was a banner year (most of them were) we would share a bottle of good champagne as a gift to each of our clients. The bottle was personally delivered with a card from the company signed by the top staff.
We got very good responses. Who doesn’t like champagne?
Probably many people don’t like champagne, otherwise it would be the best selling of alcoholic beverages, and I don’t think it is. Diabetics might not want to quaff it, ex-alcoholics might give it a thumbs down, people who actually care about their health and known the naughty effects any alcohol can have on the old corpus to keep it from staying sano…these are a few non-fans of champagne that come to mind. On the other hand, lots of people do like it and de gustibus non disputandum est and all that sort of thing.
Right! And who doesn’t like getting something with a personal touch? :)
Frankly if someone gets angry because of a gift you have given them then they don’t deserve to receive a gift in the first place. We really shouldnt be putting up with such childish self-centered behaviour. Don’t they know how to smile sweetly and accept something with a degree of grace?
I agree whole heartedly with what youโve written, especially as gentlemen are meant to be well mannered. To a degree, I think the article or transcript has been poorly worded about gentlemen being angry. Rather, Iโd reword it to something to extent of how most recipients can differentiate between gifts that have been given with some thought put into them and ones that havenโt. In the case of the latter they will often wind up being donated to thrift stores where the recipient has very little if any use for them.
Sadly, there are actually people who get angry when they receive something that they don’t like and I’m saying this from personal experience. But yes, it doesn’t hurt to smile sweetly and accept something with a degree of grace. :)
Thatโs rather worrisome. Evidently theyโre yet to be introduced to the GGโs etiquette guides :)
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